When the kids started to approach school age my hubby and I
started to talk about what we wanted to do as far as education. We knew we
didn’t want to just put them in a school simply because we lived in that school
district. It was important to both of us to really put thought into what suited
our kids personalities and learning styles best.
Growing up I moved around so often sometimes attending
3 or 4 different schools in a year. Not only was it difficult for me to make
friends but I also found it hard to learn. Schools learn different curriculums
at different times from city to city and state to state. I remember in 4th grade
going to one school where they were starting to learn their times tables and
then several months later moving to a different school where they just finished
their times tables leaving me not knowing any of them. I didn’t learn them till
7th grade. Even though going to live with my dad from m7th
grade to 12th grade gave me more stability in my education and
I went on to do very well in school, I feel I missed out on some of the most
important parts of my education, the foundation for the Jr. High and High
School years.
My hubby’s education was much more stable but he told me he
still found himself bored by the 11th grade. Because of his
boredom he was starting to hang out with the wrong crowd, started doing poorly
in school leading him to fail in the end. He later got his GED but to this day
he still regrets not getting his diploma.
With such different education styles I thought for sure we
would have different ideas as to where the kids would end up in school. It
seems that somehow we learned the same lesson and agreed on and education style
very quickly.
We had never heard of Montessori until we visited a friend
who had a little girl who was getting ready to attend a Montessori school. She
had a brochure on her counter and after I went through it and showed it to
Nathan we knew we wanted to research more. Needless to say we researched our
bums off; we visited countless Montessori schools and even hired a Montessori
tutor to come into our home 3 days a week to see how the kids took to the
Montessori style. I noticed that many Montessori schools were different since
the majority of them in Arizona are privately owned and I didn’t like that. We
want to have full control of their learning environment and we want them to
have more one on one contact with the teacher but mostly we want to be as
involved as we possibly can in their education. The best way for us to do that
is to home school. So we now home school with a Montessori and child led
learning curriculum.
WHAT IS MONTESSORI?
"I have studied the child. I have taken what the child
has given me and expressed it and that is what is called the Montessori
Method." Dr. Maria Montessori.
The Montessori Method is a way about thinking about who
children are. It is a philosophy that respects the unique individuality of each
child. Dr. Montessori believed in the worthiness, value and importance of
children. Her method does not compare a child to norms or standards that
are measured by traditional educational systems. It is founded on the belief
that children should be free to succeed and learn without restriction or
criticism.
It is also an approach to education that takes to heart the
needs, talents, gifts, and special individuality of each child. It is a process
that helps children learn in their own way at their own pace. The main concept
of Montessori is to promote the joy of learning. This joy of learning develops
a well adjusted person who has a purpose and direction in his or her life.
Children, who experience the joy of learning, are happy, confident, fulfilled
children. In essence, Montessori helps bring forth the gift of each child.
Another important skill it teaches is self-reliance and
independence. It helps a child to become independent by teaching him or her
life skills, which is called practical life. Montessori children learn to dress
themselves, help cook, put their toys and clothes away and take an active part
of their household, neighborhood and school.
Montessori works in a methodical way. Each step in the
process leads to the next level of learning. When a child plays, he or she
is learning concepts for abstract learning. Repetition of activities is an
integral part of this learning process.
For young children Montessori is a hand on approach to
learning. It encourages children to develop their observation skills by doing
many types of activities. These activities include use of the five senses,
kinetic movement, spatial refinement, small and large motor skill coordination,
and concrete knowledge that lead to later abstraction.
For a grade school child, Montessori encourages a child to
proceed at his or her own pace onto abstract thinking, writing, reading,
science, mathematics and most importantly, to absorb his or her culture and
environment. Culture includes interaction with nature, art, music, religion,
societal organizations and customs.
A Montessori teacher or instructor observes each child like
a scientist, providing every child with an individual program for learning.
Phoebe Child (Head of the Montessori trust in London) said "we must be
prepared to wait patiently like a servant, to watch carefully like a scientist,
and to understand through love and wonder like a saint."
Most of all, Montessori wanted to help free a child's mind
to be unfettered to learn without any negative input. It is success oriented in
that almost everything is self-teaching and self-correcting. The children learn
by doing and by experimentation. The environment is specifically prepared for
the children to allow them to interact with it freely and unfettered,
everything is child sized, and safe for children to touch and use. In fact, Dr.
Montessori called her center "The Children's House".
The main goal of Montessori
is to provide a stimulating, child oriented environment that children can
explore, touch, and learn without fear. An understanding parent or teacher is a
large part of this child's world. The end result is to encourage life long
learning, the joy of learning, and happiness about one's path and purpose in
life.
Montessori education is characterized by an emphasis on
independence, freedom within limits, and respect for a child’s
natural physiological development. Although a range of practices
exists under the name "Montessori", the Association Montessori
International (AMI) and the American Montessori Society (AMS) cite these
elements as essential:
§ Mixed age classrooms, with classrooms for
children aged 2½ or 3 to 6 years old by far the most common
§ Student choice of activity from within a
prescribed range of options
§ Uninterrupted blocks of work time
§ A Constructivism or
"discovery" model, where students learn concepts from working with
materials, rather than by direct instruction
§ Specialized educational materials developed by
Montessori and her collaborators
In addition, many Montessori schools design their programs
with reference to Montessori’s model of human development from her published
works, and use pedagogy, lessons, and materials introduced in teacher
training derived from courses presented by Montessori during her lifetime
Human tendencies
Montessori saw universal, innate characteristics in human
psychology which her son and collaborator Mario Montessori identified as
"human tendencies" in 1957. There is some debate about the exact
list, but the following are clearly identified
§ Self-preservation
§ Orientation to the environment
§ Order
§ Exploration
§ Communication
§ Work, also described as "purposeful
activity"
§ Manipulation of the environment
§ Exactness
§ Repetition
§ Abstraction
§ Self-perfection
§ The "mathematical mind"
In the Montessori approach, these human tendencies are seen
as driving behavior in every stage of development, and education should respond
to and facilitate their expression.
Prepared environment
Montessori's education method called for free activity within
a "prepared environment", meaning an educational environment tailored
to basic human characteristics and to the specific characteristics of children
at different ages. The function of the environment is to allow the child to
develop independence in all areas according to his or her inner psychological
directives. In addition to offering access to the Montessori materials
appropriate to the age of the children, the environment should exhibit the
following characteristics
§ Construction in proportion to the child and
his/her needs
§ Beauty and harmony, cleanliness of environment
§ Order
§ An arrangement that facilitates movement and
activity
§ Limitation of materials, so that only material
that supports the child's development is included
Throughout this blog I will be sharing any ideas, DIY
education tools, crafts that we do, recipes, field trips and how we have set up
our home to suit our kids Montessori needs.